பெண்வழிச் சேரல்
Being led by Women
Read all ten original Tamil couplets from this chapter with clear, modern interpretations for everyday learning.
Kurals
901–910
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Kural 901
1 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
மனைவிழைவார் மாண்பயன் எய்தார் வினைவிழையார்
வேண்டாப் பொருளும் அது.
Modern interpretation
The verse warns against letting excessive attachment to a spouse replace duty and responsible purpose. For example, someone may skip an important community task just to avoid a partner’s displeasure.
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Kural 902
2 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
பேணாது பெண்விழைவான் ஆக்கம் பெரியதோர்
நாணாக நாணுத் தரும்.
Modern interpretation
A person who neglects responsibility and blindly follows a spouse can turn even great wealth into a source of shame. For example, a wealthy person may misuse their position to please a partner and lose others’ respect.
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Kural 903
3 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
இல்லாள்கண் தாழ்ந்த இயல்பின்மை எஞ்ஞான்றும்
நல்லாருள் நாணுத் தரும்.
Modern interpretation
Someone who gives up their judgment out of fear at home may feel ashamed among good people. For example, they may stay silent when a partner asks them to act unfairly, then regret it around honest friends.
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Kural 904
4 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
மனையாளை அஞ்சும் மறுமையி லாளன்
வினையாண்மை வீறெய்த லின்று.
Modern interpretation
A person ruled by fear at home may never show courage or earn respect through action. For example, they may avoid leading a needed project because they fear their partner’s reaction.
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Kural 905
5 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
இல்லாளை அஞ்சுவான் அஞ்சுமற் றெஞ்ஞான்றும்
நல்லார்க்கு நல்ல செயல்.
Modern interpretation
If fear of a spouse controls someone, it can keep them from doing even good things for deserving people. For example, they may refuse to help a needy friend because their partner might object.
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Kural 906
6 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
இமையாரின் வாழினும் பாடிலரே இல்லாள்
அமையார்தோள் அஞ்சு பவர்.
Modern interpretation
Even a person living in comfort and luxury lacks true dignity if fear makes them surrender their judgment. For example, a successful professional may still be unable to make an honest choice without permission.
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Kural 907
7 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
பெண்ணேவல் செய்தொழுகும் ஆண்மையின் நாணுடைப்
பெண்ணே பெருமை உடைத்து.
Modern interpretation
The verse praises a woman’s self-respect above a man’s shameless dependence on a spouse’s every command. For example, staying honest under pressure shows more character than using status to please someone.
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Kural 908
8 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
நட்டார் குறைமுடியார் நன்றாற்றார் நன்னுதலாள்
பெட் டாங்கு ஒழுகு பவர்.
Modern interpretation
People who blindly follow a partner’s wishes may neglect friends in need and fail to do what is right. For example, they may cancel a promise to help a friend because their partner wants their time elsewhere.
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Kural 909
9 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
அறவினையும் ஆன்ற பொருளும் பிறவினையும்
பெண்ஏவல் செய்வார்கண் இல்.
Modern interpretation
When someone surrenders judgment to a partner’s commands, they may neglect virtue, responsible work, and healthy enjoyment. For example, they may abandon volunteering, career duties, and balanced recreation simply to avoid disagreement at home.
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Kural 910
10 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
எண்சேர்ந்த நெஞ்சத் திடனுடையார்க்கு எஞ்ஞான்றும்
பெண்சேர்ந்தாம் பேதைமை இல்.
Modern interpretation
People with clear thinking, inner strength, and stable means do not lose themselves in blind dependence on a spouse. For example, they can love their partner while still making thoughtful, responsible decisions.
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