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பழைமை

Familiarity

Read all ten original Tamil couplets from this chapter with clear, modern interpretations for everyday learning.

Kurals

801810

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Kural 801

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

பழைமை எனப்படுவது யாதெனின் யாதும்

கிழமையைக் கீழ்ந்திடா நட்பு.

Modern interpretation

Long friendship allows trusted friends to act with familiar freedom without destroying the bond. If a longtime friend makes a small mistake while trying to help, do not treat it as betrayal.

Read Kural 801 in full

Kural 802

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

நட்பிற் குறுப்புக் கெழுதகைமை மற்றதற்கு

உப்பாதல் சான்றோர் கடன்.

Modern interpretation

A friend's freedom to act openly is part of real friendship, and accepting it shows maturity. If a close friend changes a shared plan to help, appreciate the trust behind the gesture.

Read Kural 802 in full

Kural 803

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

பழகிய நட்பெவன் செய்யுங் கெழுதகைமை

செய்தாங்கு அமையாக் கடை.

Modern interpretation

Long friendship means standing by a trusted friend's action as you would stand by your own, when it was done in good faith. If a longtime friend handles a shared task without asking first, support the effort unless it causes real harm.

Read Kural 803 in full

Kural 804

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

விழைதகையான் வேண்டி இருப்பர் கெழுதகையாற்

கேளாது நட்டார் செயின்.

Modern interpretation

When a trusted friend acts without asking out of familiarity, a wise person values the goodwill if the action is helpful. If a friend submits something on your behalf to meet a deadline, thank them instead of taking offense.

Read Kural 804 in full

Kural 805

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

பேதைமை ஒன்றோ பெருங்கிழமை என்றுணர்க

நோதக்க நட்டார் செயின்.

Modern interpretation

When a friend does something hurtful, it may come from ignorance or from feeling close enough to act freely. Before ending the friendship over a mistake, ask whether they misunderstood or assumed your trust.

Read Kural 805 in full

Kural 806

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

எல்லைக்கண் நின்றார் துறவார் தொலைவிடத்தும்

தொல்லைக்கண் நின்றார் தொடர்பு.

Modern interpretation

A person who understands true friendship does not abandon a longtime friend just because the relationship has become difficult. When a friend loses a job or faces a crisis, stay supportive instead of disappearing.

Read Kural 806 in full

Kural 807

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

அழிவந்த செய்யினும் அன்பறார் அன்பின்

வழிவந்த கேண்மை யவர்.

Modern interpretation

A bond rooted in love is not thrown away just because a friend makes a damaging mistake. If a close friend gives bad advice that costs you an opportunity, address the mistake without erasing your care for them.

Read Kural 807 in full

Kural 808

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

கேளிழுக்கம் கேளாக் கெழுதகைமை வல்லார்க்கு

நாளிழுக்கம் நட்டார் செயின்.

Modern interpretation

Loyalty should not mean ignoring every warning about a friend; if that friend abuses such trust, the friendship has been wasted. If several people point out repeated cheating, do not call it loyalty to pretend nothing is wrong.

Read Kural 808 in full

Kural 809

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

கெடாஅ வழிவந்த கேண்மையார் கேண்மை

விடாஅர் விழையும் உலகு.

Modern interpretation

People respect those who do not abandon a longtime friend when circumstances change. If a friend moves away or struggles financially, keep in touch instead of remembering them only when life is easy.

Read Kural 809 in full

Kural 810

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Tamil original · தமிழ்

விழையார் விழையப் படுப பழையார்கண்

பண்பின் தலைப்பிரியா தார்.

Modern interpretation

Even opponents respect someone who remains steady in affection for longtime friends. A rival may still admire you for giving an old friend a fair chance when others turn against them.

Read Kural 810 in full