பிரிவாற்றாமை
Separation unendurable
Read all ten original Tamil couplets from this chapter with clear, modern interpretations for everyday learning.
Kurals
1151–1160
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Kural 1151
1 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
செல்லாமை உண்டேல் எனக்குரை மற்றுநின்
வல்வரவு வாழ்வார்க் குரை.
Modern interpretation
If you are staying, tell me plainly. If you must leave and return soon, tell that promise to those who may still be alive when you come back. When a partner says they will be away, the uncertainty can make every day feel unbearable.
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Kural 1152
2 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
இன்கண் உடைத்தவர் பார்வல் பிரிவஞ்சும்
புன்கண் உடைத்தால் புணர்வு.
Modern interpretation
His look once made me happy, but now even being close to him hurts because I am already afraid of losing him. When someone you love is preparing to leave, a happy moment can be shadowed by worry.
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Kural 1153
3 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
அரிதரோ தேற்றம் அறிவுடையார் கண்ணும்
பிரிவோ ரிடத்துண்மை யான்.
Modern interpretation
Even a wise lover may one day leave, so I cannot feel fully secure in his promise to stay. When plans change despite good intentions, trust can still feel fragile.
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Kural 1154
4 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
அளித்தஞ்சல் என்றவர் நீப்பின் தெளித்தசொல்
தேறியார்க்கு உண்டோ தவறு.
Modern interpretation
He told me not to fear and promised he would not leave; if he goes, how can believing him be my fault? When someone breaks a reassuring promise, the person who trusted it is not to blame.
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Kural 1155
5 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
ஓம்பின் அமைந்தார் பிரிவோம்பல் மற்றவர்
நீங்கின் அரிதால் புணர்வு.
Modern interpretation
If you want to protect my life, do not let my beloved leave. Once he goes, finding our way back to each other may be nearly impossible. A couple should face a difficult separation before it becomes permanent.
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Kural 1156
6 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
பிரிவுரைக்கும் வன்கண்ணர் ஆயின் அரிதவர்
நல்குவர் என்னும் நசை.
Modern interpretation
If he is hard-hearted enough to announce that he is leaving, I should not expect him to return and show tenderness. When someone says goodbye without concern for your pain, holding on to hope can only hurt more.
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Kural 1157
7 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
துறைவன் துறந்தமை தூற்றாகொல் முன்கை
இறைஇறவா நின்ற வளை.
Modern interpretation
The bangles slipping from my thinning arm seem ready to tell everyone that my beloved plans to leave. When stress makes a bracelet loose, even a small change can reveal a hidden heartbreak.
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Kural 1158
8 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
இன்னாது இனன்இல்ஊர் வாழ்தல் அதனினும்
இன்னாது இனியார்ப் பிரிவு.
Modern interpretation
Living in a place where no one cares for you is painful, but being separated from the person you love is worse. Moving to a new city is hard; missing the one person who feels like home can be harder.
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Kural 1159
9 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
தொடிற்சுடின் அல்லது காமநோய் போல
விடிற்சுடல் ஆற்றுமோ தீ.
Modern interpretation
Fire burns only when you touch it, but love's pain burns even when the beloved is far away. A person can be hurt by longing while sitting alone with no one near.
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Kural 1160
10 of 10Tamil original · தமிழ்
அரிதாற்றி அல்லல்நோய் நீக்கிப் பிரிவாற்றிப்
பின்இருந்து வாழ்வார் பலர்.
Modern interpretation
Many people may agree to a painful separation, survive the grief, and keep living afterward—but I do not know how I could. When a partner leaves for work or duty, staying strong can feel possible for others and impossible for you.
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